The presence of GRACE is the absence of DISGRACE. GRACE moves you from low level to a higher PLACE. It makes the devil to loose his grip on your CASE. It wipes away your poverty without any TRACE. Those that hate you will suddenly enjoy to see your FACE.It makes every accusation against your life have no solid BASE. It turns your mistakes into PRAISE.
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Beauty attracts the eyes but personality captures the heart. Romance is your weapon as a married lover; never neglect your job for others to do. Know that being romantic is not just an important thing to do; it’s everything about a sustainable relationship/marriage.
You don’t get shy in matrimonial affairs, your man as a matter of fact is your game-toy, be creative with him. Do everything in your power to preoccupy his mind, give him a reason to desire home.
Send sweet text messages to him at work, sometimes even if you are in the bedroom discussing with him, still try chatting him up on social media such as (Facebook, Whatsapp, Viber, Imo, bbm etc). Even though he is right in front of you, it’s fun and romantic to invade his attention in all angles! Discuss how lovely he is on your facebook timeline; this will trip him a lot.
Note that you should be chatting with your husband 90% of your time on the social media and not spending such time to engage other men on those networks.
When eating, give him the biggest meat. Sometimes, use your soft voice to sing for him. Get creative with this. For instance, a poem like (twinkle, twinkle lovely spouse, how I wonder what you are, up above my world so high, like a diamond in my heart) could drive your way into a man’s soft spot even when previously he wasn’t thinking of being nice to you.
Do away with robot approach dealing with your man. For instance you could welcome him with a kiss, a warm hug and/or a prayer song or poem on his return from office to get him off his office wears (both physical and emotional wears). You have just informed him by this gesture that the office stress is over and he is back into his haven of peace, comfort and romance. Never again welcome your husband home with hang over issue or attitude or with an angry face because there is no money in the house. When he feels the comfort and peace of mind, you may have positioned him better to think right about what he could do next to bring income home for his family. Other critical “don’t (s)” include the consciousness to never welcome your husband with a sweaty body, un-perfumed face, dirty attire, non-smart or non-romantic look. Don’t also only play, chat or smile with him when he receives his salary. He will know without being told that it’s a gimmick.
If all you could start with is a warm welcome with a hug, do that consistently and when he is going to work, pray to God to keep him safe and for him to be successful. Support him, advise him, wipe his tears, be grateful to him. Remember, it’s not easy to be a man especially due to economic situation of our days. When you observe his faith waxing cold, encourage him. Never result to threatening him that you will seek divorce. Never compare him with other men. Buy him gifts too, wash his clothes, express your affection for him. Praise him in a way that he wouldn’t think of an alternative. Be the best to him in your own rights even if there are areas you feel he is not measuring up to you yet. Be a good cook, dress him up and try your best to be there giving him all the attention when he gets ill.
Wake him with a peck and don’t complain about his snoring habit if he is one of such.
Let kisses be the messenger between the both of you. Read books on intimacy and don’t just subject your knowledge to what you learn from what you see in movies. Since most of those movie-dramas are never real.
Call your husband pet names. Though you can also call him by his name even if he is 30yrs older than you, as far as he is comfortable with it. You also need to respect your husband and honour him even if he is younger than you.
Know this always that marriage isn’t a bed of roses but a bed of sacrifice. And like It’s usually said, there is nothing better for two people who love each other than marriage.
True love, they said, is like a virus only marriage can apprehend. So make the best of your marriage by indulging in quality romance! That’s the icing on your cake-like marriage-life! Be romantic!💋
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Women are like the-end-of-the year award; they want to be “The Number One Always.” Please, dont make her feel less. Also be conscious that she is like an highway-cap with certain degree of vulnerability to back bridges called the ‘Ex-Affairs’; give her reasons not to look back, give her reasons to have no room for comparison. Everybody is happy when your woman feels she is second to none. Please keep her at that spot. Of course, women are weaker vessel, they need petting and unrivalled attention. It pays to make her feel like a baby. The truth is, every woman desires to be treated like a 2yrs old girl, that’s why they behave childish or silly at times. Understanding this erotic attitude will keep you her KING!
Make your home the palace of comedy. Spoil your wife with things you wouldn’t like anyone else do to her like, carrying her to the bed when she sleeps off on the sitting room couch. Often, when certain men are blessed with some hyper-reactive ladies who rather displayed “am tired of this attitude” in the course of normal domestic argument, note that this doesn’t mean she is asking for a divorce, she is just being childish. She simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say “It’s just an argument; am sorry if I hurt your feelings”.
That’s women for you. Every potential brother needs to study in the university of women before getting married. Read books about them, learn what the Bible says about them and you will hardly have a problem with them.
Although there will always be some peculiar challenges, because you’re both from different background and those differences are bound to reflect in the course of your interrelationship. This is why you need to read books about marriage; about building an ideal home; about child upbringing or balanced parenting; about the importance of marriage and the related literature. Never jump into marriage without matrimonial know-how, otherwise, you will have problems and/or you may eventually jump out.
Only few matured men could temper a nagging, shouting and temperamental women. This is because only maturity could keep a man calm and collected in the presence of a nagging wife. At least like the golden rule says, when one person is on fire, the other person’s attitude should reflect water to remedy the flames.
Brothers, when there is an offensive gesture from your spouse, it is better to presume it was unintentional, so don’t change the colour of your eyes in reaction, rather, you may attempt a smile in reaction. Like it is said, soft response turns away wrath, if she has done that intentionally, it will definitely means she was trying to get your attention, playfully. If it was by mistake, then, it was nobody’s fault. Hence, it doesn’t worth shouting at a woman over petty issues.
Real men aren’t petty, so learn to ignore things; don’t be petty. Rather, get feminine; do “hide and seek” with your wife, sing poems for your wife in the garden or inside the house, even if she is teasing you.
Assisting your wife in doing the house chores or kitchen activities will only keep the both of you mutual. So challenge yourself to pound yam with her, join her in fetching water, such that both of you end up being whom the bible says you are: an helpmate, not a boss-servant partners.
Some other folk-plays will also help build your relationship and these include: using blind folds to cover her eyes and tickling her; it’s normal to scare her some times; call her regularly from work/ school; text her; write “I love you” in a small note and put such under her pillow or in her purse, bathroom or cosmetics box or inside her cupboard etc. Kiss her always, cuddle her, pamper her and adore her hair. Always tell her, she’s beautiful and that you’re happy to have her as your partner.
All these are part of being romantic…When a woman tells you that you are not romantic, it means you are not doing all or some of the above. She is definitely not referring to bedroom romance. That’s why, it is important for brothers to study the “women’s language.”
Make her never to walk back to the beaming old bridge-way! Be all she needs in a man. Do your checklist always!
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